We are all looking for that edge, that product that will make us harder, longer, bigger, better. But is always more, better?
Life is about being who we are. And how we live our lives is up to us.
Screwing the next guy just because you can, does have its consequences. If you are having a bad day, don't take it out during sex. You are the one in control. Don't take your frustrations out on him. After all, there are cooler heads. He can always go to the vegetable tray in the refrigerator and substitute you for a cucumber.
Get back to why you are with him. It's something you saw in him. It'sall those good times you had. It's all those dreams you shared. So never go to bed angry and NEVER, NEVER take your frustrations out at him during sex. Settle your differences some other way. Be the bigger man.