Thursday, October 20, 2005

Is It the Man or the Man's Bedroom That Makes 4 Great Sex

My old buddy, and I use that term loosely, Woody Miller who writes, Need Wood? brings up an interesting point that I would like to explore.

I am sure all of you have had one night stands that when you were led into his bedroom, you almost barfed. The place was cruddy. The sheets weren't changed in ages, and everything was scattered everywhere. Here's a signal guys, that this might not be Mr. Right.

While we can't always be Mr. Clean, we can make the right impression. Clean sheets, a bed that is made, clothes hung in the closet, makes for a great first impression. You want to make him feel special, and your bedroom got to exhibit that.

I like leather sheets and pillow cases. I also like flannel. I change them weekly so when I ask a guy over, he feels well treated and is looking forward to having some fun. First off, we both head into the bathroom and take a shower together. Rub a dub is a great way of getting clean and making foreplay. Toweling him off is another way to make the night magical. If you are lucky enough to have a soaking tub, that too can become a great way to unwind and get him hard and soapy all at the same time.

So this one time, I do agree with Woody. If you want to impress your guy, get your bedroom in order. Clean the night stand, have everything you need readily nearby, and make him feel like he's never felt before. Hell, you can always get a good night's sleep. But good all night sex is what can make you fall in love with him this time or all over again.

5 comments:

Tony said...

>>>>>>>>>Glad to see you up and running again with the blog. I'm hooked.

I agree. I can think of one guy I spent the night with. If his bedroom had looked like the rest of his place, I would have walked my furry little ass right out the door. Fortunately it was like a sanctuary.

Flannel sheets on a cold night. Yes. Can't say I have ever experienced leather sheets--suspect they get ya all hot and sweaty, aye? Grrrrrrrr!

cola boy said...

Leather sheets sound very interesting. I need to come over and check yours out some time. ;-)

AC said...

Geez, this makes me feel insecure, becuase when I was younger I was incredibly messy and could never afford a bed nicer than a futon mattress on the floor...

I always felt a little creepy bringing one night stands home, preferring instead the club or THEIR house, lol...

Leather sheets? Never heard of such a thing! Don't they get sticky?

Rich said...

I met this really hot, butch, hairy guy who strangely looks like you- woof! He takes me home- ok so far so good, nice home, well kept...we go to his debroom and he turns on the light...uh oh- trouble...stuffed animals everywhere! But wait don't run just yet, he proceeds to pick up each one lovingly and introduces them to me. "I'd wike wo to meet Mr. Booboo Babooon, we've been bestest of friends since I was 8..." he proceeded to tell me as I slowly backed out looking like a deer caught in headlights. Hey, it's one thing to ignore flowers and purses falling from butch men's mouths- it's entirely another thing consider your "bestest" friend stuffed, mute, and cute.

buff said...

Well Rich, I guess this is some sort of fantasy of yours. Sorry, I don't know any BooBoo Baboons. And I don't do threesomes with stuffed animals. THought I'd add it, if you had any ideas. Glad you liked the post.